Proper Breast Etiquette: Feel It on the First

If you’ve ever wondered what “proper breast etiquette” looks like, it’s not pearls, posture, or perfect bras. It’s something far more important — the monthly ritual of the breast self-exam.

Crystal lying on the couch in the Perky waiting room after completing her breast self-check.

The Ritual of the Self-Exam

Once a month, take a few quiet minutes to get familiar with your body. The goal isn’t to hunt down something scary, but rather to notice what’s normal for you — so you can spot anything that feels not normal.

  • Use the pads of your fingers to gently move in circular motions across the entire breast and up into the armpit.

  • Check for lumps, bumps, or unusual thickening.

  • Don’t forget your nipples — look for changes in shape, color, discharge, or new inversion.

  • Repeat the process lying down and standing up (sometimes things feel different in different positions).

Why It Matters

While most breast changes aren’t cancer, early detection can save your life. A quick monthly check makes you the expert of your own body. You’ll notice subtle changes long before anyone else — and that’s powerful.

Want a comprehensive, step-by-step guide to performing a breast self-exam? Our breakdown covers not only how to complete the exam, but also the best settings to do it in—such as in the shower or lying down—and what specific changes to look for, including lumps, skin texture changes, or nipple discharge. Click the link below.👇

The Cheeky Crown Moment

And once you’re done? Crown yourself. You’ve just taken charge of your health in under five minutes.

“And thus, our heroine ensures her kingdom remains safe. Feel it on the First… because prevention, my dear, is always proper etiquette.

Make it a habit: put a reminder in your phone for the 1st of every month. Share this post with a friend who needs a playful nudge. Because queens protect their kingdom — and that includes their breasts. 👑

Previous
Previous

Thriving Beyond Breast Cancer: A Group Coaching Journey for Survivors

Next
Next

The Side Effects of Tamoxifen (and Other Hormone Blockers) No One Talks About